Not long ago, while I was hunting for summer salad recipes for this tasty little round-up, I realized that I’ve posted a whole lot more salads than most other blogs. Hearty salads with grains or beans (or both, as is the case here) are terrific side dishes for family meals and easy potluck offerings. I’m also convinced that they are the ultimate single girl food. I can make a big bowl of salad and keep it in the fridge for ready-made meals or just stick a fork in it for a snack. Living alone, I can eat straight outta the bowl without an eyebrow raised. The single life is good, my friends, and the perks are many.
That trip to New York reminded me how much I love my quiet life with Cookie. Every moment of that trip was spent with others, others whose presence I enjoy very much, but I need ample alone time to feel like myself. Cookie understands this; she lounges around on the couch and comes by to say hi if I’ve spent too much time staring at this screen. Every day, our conversation goes something like this, “Cookie, have I told you how pretty you look today?” She wags her tail.
My travel companion kept commanding me to “pep up!” but the truth is, I’m not peppy all the time. I don’t like talking for the sake of talking. I might use exclamation points liberally in writing but I’m not bubbly in real life. My head is usually lost in the clouds and I get irritated when someone tries to bring me back down to earth. This introversion is an undeniable part of me but maybe, someday, I’ll find someone who understands and lets me float around in thought and never runs out of interesting ideas to share. Here’s to hoping he’ll like salads, too, because I’m not going to stop making them.
Thankfully, you all seem to enjoy salads almost as much as I do (I know Sarah does, at least!). I loosely adapted this one from two of my favorite recipe sources, Melissa Clark (Cook This Now
If I had to pick one salad to eat for the rest of my life, it might be this one. A bold statement, I know, but it’s a statement befitting this unapologetically bold salad. It’s overflowing with spicy arugula, salty feta cheese, sweet and crunchy carrot ribbons, chewy wheat berries and earthy chickpeas, tossed in a bright, lemony olive oil vinaigrette. Hop on over to Chesapeake TASTE for the recipe!
P.s. If you want a little peek into my rarely photographed, humble little kitchen, it’s on Houzz this week!
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Yum, yum, yum…yes, please…keep up with the salad recipes! As a fellow introvert/online extrovert, I feel your pain. Luckily, I found my perfect match after a long time of perfectly-happy-alone-time. He’s a total social extrovert who keeps the chatter going when we’re amongst others so I can float and absorb, with occasional bump ins. And even better, I didn’t have to give up eating out of the salad bowl — we just have two forks now. :)
Thanks, Erin. I’m glad you found someone to share your salads and your life with. :)
Beautiful. Definitely my kind of salad!
This salad looks so fresh and tasty! Yum!
ME TOO.
You’re blessed to realize this and be able to articulate it so well, Kate! Seriously! Just knowing this about yourself will serve you well in all your relationships. I feel like I’ve only come to understand this about myself recently and that, in a lot of ways, I’m still coming to understand it. For a lot of my life, I felt kind of guilty about being introverted or thoughtful, like it was decidedly NOT the preferable way to be and that I should hype myself and be ‘peppy’ like your traveling companion advised you. But the reality is that I am not like that. I can only be me, and since being me is all that I have to offer in this big, diverse world, I have to be that and accept it as OK.
You’re so right, Shanna. I am what I am and you are what you are, and it’s ok to be quiet and thoughtful. You can’t force peppy!
a) IN LOVE with your white table, glass bowls, jade plants, natural light, etc. Seriously purty.
b) This salad is making me weepy.
c) Move here already!
I’m trying, I’m trying! This summer has been too busy to pack up and move. I’m coming to visit mid-July, though—I’ll email you in advance this time. Let’s drink wine again!
This salad looks amazing – love all the textures you have going on here, especially since texture is one of the things I love most about salad.
As a fellow introvert, I can totally relate. Thanks for sharing & the reminder that alone time is good, and being bubbly just for the sake of it probably isn’t.
I’m a salad fanatic too – I sometimes get self conscious that I post too many salads on my blog, too. Love this recipe – thanks for sharing. :)
You’re welcome, Tami. :) Bring on those salad recipes, I know that I for one cannot get enough of them!
1. You are so pretty! (Visited the Houzz article) And of course Cookie is, too.
2. Love your place. Very artfully done.
3. You are single-handedly responsible for a shift towards the healthy in my cooking habits, since I found your blog and started subscribing.
4. Being introverted/introspective and enjoying being alone is a wonderful thing, and is not necessarily counter-productive to finding a life partner. It took me a while to find the right man, but we are very happy 23 years later. If it is what you want, I wish the same for you.
Thank you so much for your sweet and thoughtful comment, Sue. I’m delighted to hear that you’re eating more healthy food since finding my blog—you make all my hard work worthwhile. Glad to hear that you found the right one for you, I hope to find mine someday, too. Until then, I’m content just hanging out with Cookie and my friends. :)
This is exactly the type of meal I want to be eating now that it’s gotten hot out. Chickpeas, greens, and carrot–perfect. And I must say I would have a hard time not kicking anyone who told me to “pep up” in the shins. Forbearance!
I love the combination of flavours, colours and textures in this salad. Just perfect. And I know exactly what you mean about being an introvert. Although I love time with my friends and other people, I can’t do it for long. I wish I could but I never will be able to because I need to be able to disappear into myself relatively frequently. I spent far too long trying to be someone that I’m not in the past and now I just accept that that’s how I am!
Hear, hear! I’m learning to accept these qualities about myself rather than trying to change them or pretend that I’m otherwise. There’s really nothing at all wrong with being introverted!
I’ve been wanting to experiment with wheatberries. This looks like a great place to start!
You’re kitchen is darling! I’m ready to hop a plane from NYC and invite myself over for a cooking party with you and cookie!
Thanks, Ashley. You know you’re always welcome in Oklahoma. :)
I love that big window right by your kitchen table! :) My boyfriend and I are moving in together (for real) next month. I’ve basically been living in his apartment while at the same time still sharing an apartment with a roommate (my bedroom there has become a storage over the past few months). I still have moments of panic attacks about not having MY own place anymore… there are days when I miss being single, like not having to worry about time and organizing schedules according to his and eating or not eating whenever I want to. This salad looks amazing and what boy would not love a salad like that? :) Kathryne, you are truly adorable! :)
Thanks, Margarita! I think relationships are all about compromise and it sounds like you’ve found one worth compromising for. Best of luck!
I call it “alone-zone”… I know how it goes…
I could eat a salad every day – and I love everything about this one!
I feel the same way. I’m often in my own head and enjoy my quiet time, it’s when I feel most peaceful and inspired.
I have really enjoyed your blog for a while …. I swear Cookie was a cat? It wasn’t until this last post about your kitchen, that I peeked @ houzz and see that Cookie is a dog! Thank you for all your yummy salads and other recipes. I truly enjoy reading your posts and trying the recipes.
That’s so funny, Karen! Cookie is all dog. I’m so happy to hear that you enjoy my blog and the recipes!
you photograph the salad so beautifully… it looks soo fresh.. especially in this weather!! and i so identify with every word that you wrote about your ‘introversion’!!! :)
I love your kitchen. Sometimes, you just have to make do with what you’ve got and turn it around into your special space!
Aside from the salty/sweet blend of flavors, the colorization is phenomenal! I can’t wait to try this recipe. How does the lemon flavored dressing fair against the other ingredients? Is it the dominate flavor, or does it balance out the extreme saltiness of the feta cheese and spice of the arugula?
Great question, Kyle. I’d say the bold lemon flavor rounds out the other bold flavors. This salad has a real kick to it.
Bright combinations and luv your blog :) new follower :)
xoxo
I feel like I might have mentioned this to you at Veronica’s, but I miss living alone PRECISELY because of the quiet, much-needed alone time. I’m definitely the kinda gal who likes to decompress solo often. And salads like this one are the ultimate single girl food(/ultimate food in general in my opinion). Yum. And thanks for including one of my recipes in your salad roundup, lady :)
This looks great! Melissa Clark & America’s Test Kitchen are two of my favorite sources for advice & inspiration. Yum!
Wow – love the comment thread here. So many sweet and true things said, your heart must be swelling. :) Beautiful salad too…
Yes, every comment has made me smile! I’m convinced I have the best readers around. Thanks, Marissa!
Funny, I felt very much the same way after I returned from New York. I love being around people, and am very much a people person, but alone time is so vital to recharge, re-energize, and balance. I love big salads, especially when Matt’s away and I’m living the single girl life. Also, after a gorge-fest in NYC, I NEED lots of salads. xo
Great salad! I love adding wheat berries to salads!
The picture of the salad jumped at me on facebook, so beautiful!
In my culture (I’m eastern European) personal space is not valued the same way as here, in North America. People like to spend most of their time doing things together. But after living in Canada for several years, when I visited my homeland for a few weeks I was really challenged. Seeing everyone (these are people I love and was very excited to see) made me so tired. At one point I had to lie and hide away in a park because I needed a few moments by myself to recharge. Looking at it right now I think it’s pretty funny how much I changed. I’m glad to see that I’m not the only one who spends a lot of time with the head in the clouds :)
I love salad recipes and can never get enough so please keep up the delicious work!
I’m SO excited because I found your blog by accident today and everything looks SOOOO delicious! I love to cook and 95% of my diet is whole grains/fruits & veggies so this is RIGHT up my alley … yay for me! :) I will be trying a lot of these recipes this week … keep up the great work!
Thank you, Holly, I’m happy you found my blog! Please let me know how the recipes turn out. I love feedback! Your portrait photography is beautiful, by the way.
Me too, Kate! :) I’ve already made the chickpea salad and the banana oat pancakes and both were DEE-LISH!! Looking forward to more food exploration with your delicious recipes. Thank you for the sweet compliment as well. :)
Oh yay, so happy to hear you’re enjoying the recipes already! Thanks, Holly!
Ok, I made this salad for dinner tonight and it knocked my socks off! I added grape tomatoes because I had them on hand and it was the perfect addition. Loved the colors, textures and flavors … one of my favorite all-time recipes for sure!! Serious amounts of yummmm … thx, Kate!
That’s great news, Holly! It’s one of my all-time favorite salads, glad you feel the same way about it. :)
All us single salad eating blog world gals! Somewhere there must be a bevy of understanding, salad crazy men just waiting for us :) This recipe looks absolutely delicious – I’ll just replace the wheat berries with brown rice (gluten free friendly) and I’ll be smiling all week long.
Haha! Let’s hope so!
I’m reading a book called ‘Quiet: An Introvert’s Guide to Living in a World that Won’t Stop Talking’. It was given to me by a friend and fellow introvert, with the promise of ‘This will change your life.’ I’m hoping it just makes me feel better about covering my ears and backing away.
And there is, quite frankly, nothing better in these warm days of early summer than a huge bowl of salad, grains and legumes, plunging a fork into, over and over again. Satiety comes, and it’s all good now that the loud crunching is over. I so totally get it.
This salad would be a hit at our house. So healthy and colorful! Yum!
PS I had a dog names Cookie in high school :)
I am a MAJOR introvert in some ways…I really can spend days on end with only myself and be perfectly content. I really NEED alone/me time and get cranky when I don’t get it.
And…I adore salads. Especially wheatberry salads. The combination of ingredients in this sounds awesome! Definitely something I would love!
Hello! I made this salad for dinner tonight with arugula from my CSA. Terrific recipe! I especially LOVED the dressing. Thanks!
Yum! That looks so delicious! I love salads too and definitely agree with you that living on by yourself is awesome. I often talk to my cat, who is my buddy and companion. He keeps me from going too crazy! Thanks for sharing!
someone else already commented that they replaced the wheat berries with brown rice, but do you have any other gluten-free suggestions?
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